Prince Charming

Yesterday, Boy accused me of still dreaming of my prince charming who would come and save me. I think he has missed a few chapters. After my first serious relationship did not work out and I was served all the cliches on a plate (the boy I was dating pulled out the “it is not you, it is me” and told me he wanted a highly advanced relationship where the couple did not though each other at all), I do not believe any more. My expectations with boy were therefore quite limited. I do no longer dream of perfection because I know that perfect does not exist. All I wanted was a guy who was nice and had a minimum of good maners. I do not find this too demanding, just a minimum of maners. Moreover, I am a independant woman who does not need anybody to come and save me.

So to all the guysout there who still think women dream of prince charming, do not worry, we have no longer any illusions. However, we still hope we can find someone who can love us for the person we are. Is that really so bad?

~ by mandynd on July 25, 2008.